Butt Hair Removal for Men: Waxing, Laser, and Grooming Advice

[Spencer31]

Alright, gents. Here’s the deal—I'm a thick-bodied dude in my early 30s, and body hair? I’ve got it everywhere. We're talking full Chewbacca mode. Lately, I’ve been getting uncomfortable down there, especially after workouts or long days in the heat. I’m considering getting my butt professionally waxed—not just for hygiene and sweat control, but honestly, I’m curious what it feels like to be smooth as a baby seal.

So I’ve got questions for the guys who’ve been through the butt waxing battlefield:

• How intense is the pain? Like are we talking mild wince or white-knuckle, towel-biting chaos?
• Does it actually make a difference for cleanliness or odor?
• How long does the smoothness last before it feels like a cactus farm?
• Anything you wish you had done before your first wax?
• Is laser hair removal a better long-term move?
• Would you ever do it again?

Also down to hear from folks who just trim or use body groomers—any method that’s made life better back there.
Let’s de-stigmatize man butt grooming. Who’s with me?

 

[Dr_Jennifer]

Great question, and believe me—you’re not alone in thinking about male buttocks grooming. From a medical and dermatological standpoint, here are some professional insights:

1. Pain Level: Waxing the gluteal area can be uncomfortable, especially the first time. The skin around the anus is sensitive, and for very hairy individuals, the pain may range from tolerable to sharp, but it usually subsides quickly. Many patients compare it to a sharp sting followed by a warm sensation.
2. Hygiene Benefits: For many men, waxing significantly reduces odor and sweat buildup, especially during workouts. Hair traps moisture, which can lead to bacterial overgrowth—removing it may help.
3. Duration of Smoothness: Waxing removes hair from the root, so you can expect smooth skin for about 2 to 3 weeks before regrowth starts. It takes around 4–6 weeks to fully grow back.
4. Pre-Wax Tips: Trim longer hairs to about ¼ inch beforehand. Avoid caffeine or alcohol on the day of your appointment, and exfoliate gently 24 hours before to reduce ingrown hairs.
5. Aftercare: Use a soothing aloe or tea tree oil cream, avoid tight underwear for a couple of days, and skip hot showers or workouts for 24 hours. Exfoliate gently after 3 days to prevent ingrown hairs.
6. Laser Option: For those seeking permanent reduction, laser hair removal is a great option—but you’ll need multiple sessions, and results depend on your skin and hair type.

If done by a professional, waxing is safe and effective. And yes, many men choose to repeat it every few months.

 

[Alexis]

I’ve done it twice. First time I nearly tapped out—9/10 on the pain scale. But the second time? Like a 5/10. It gets easier. Worth it for the fresh, clean feeling. I noticed way less sweat and itch back there during summer hikes. Definitely exfoliate after or you’ll get bumps.

 

[Dustin_Prime_45]

Laser changed my life, man. Pricey upfront but now I barely have to do maintenance. No pain anymore. Just a zap and done. Took 6 sessions total, but I haven’t touched a razor or wax strip in a year.

 

[Josh_Cube]

Tried waxing once—never again lol. I use a body groomer with a skin guard. No cuts, no pain, and I do it every couple weeks. Not as smooth as wax, but it works for keeping things neat.